Why don't respondents always reply back?

Modified on Fri, 19 Dec at 12:05 PM

Listening still matters, even when the conversation is quiet.

ParentPulse is designed to help schools listen and respond, even when feedback is submitted anonymously. One of the things that makes ParentPulse unique is that you can reply directly to survey feedback—and respondents can reply back, too, while remaining anonymous. 
Every response you send helps build a stronger school community:


Sometimes, though, schools take the time to send a thoughtful response and don’t hear anything back. That can feel confusing or discouraging. Often, the impact of a response is felt—even when it’s not voiced. This article explains why that can happen—and why your response still makes a meaningful impact!


How replies work in ParentPulse


When you reply to survey feedback in parent pulse:

  • your message is delivered via email to the respondent
  • anonymous respondents can still reply back if they choose
  • their identity remains protected at all times
  • creates opportunity for two-way communication, but participation is always up to the respondent



Why you may not receive a reply back


Not hearing back doesn’t mean your response was missed or unhelpful. In fact, it’s often the opposite! Here's a few reasons why respondents may not reply back to you:


  • Many respondents simply want to be heard
    For many families, submitting feedback is about sharing an experience, raising a concern, or just knowing someone is listening. It's a vessel to place their inner most thoughts, and when they receive a thoughtful reply, they often feel acknowledged and supported and don't feel the need to continue the conversation (as much as we'd like them to!).

  • Anonymity encourages honesty
    Some respondents choose anonymity because they value privacy, feel more comfortable sharing without a follow up, or they aren't ready for ongoing conversation. Even for respondents who reply anonymously, they may choose to stop receiving communication after acknowledgement.

  • Your response may have provided closure
    Perhaps in your response you clarified a situation, explained next steps, or expressed care and accountability. The respondent may feel satisfied and have nothing further to add. Sometimes, no news is great news!

  • Life happens
    As with any message (including text messages) respondents may simply read it later. They may intend to reply but get busy, or they may reflect on it without responding (we've all had those mental replies). 



At ParentPulse, we believe listening is powerful—even when the conversation doesn’t continue.


If you took the time to respond: you showed up, you modeled care, and you strengthened trust. 


That’s success—even without a reply.

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